The copy-and-paste template
Replace the bracketed prompts, and remove anything that does not fit. Share only information the family has agreed to make public.
With sadness, we share that [full name] died on [date], aged [age]. [Name] valued [values] and found joy in [interests or relationships]. We will carry forward [a lesson, example, or memory]. [Family details]. [Confirmed gathering or private remembrance details].
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Express meaning through specific memories
Instead of a spiritual phrase, describe a lasting influence: a skill someone taught, a cause they supported, or a tradition friends will continue. This makes the tribute personal without assuming a shared belief.
Avoid replacing religious language with statements that dismiss other people’s faith. The aim is to remember this person accurately, not to resolve differences among readers.
Closing a secular tribute
You might close with “We will remember their generosity,” “Their stories remain part of our lives,” or “The family will gather privately to remember them.” Choose wording you genuinely mean.
If a gathering includes readings or music, confirm the program before mentioning it. You can call the event a memorial, remembrance, or celebration of life without implying a religious service.
Illustrations, not real obituaries
Obituary examples
Fictional example
A values-led remembrance
Alex Rivera, 62, of Minneapolis, died on May 20, 2025. Alex valued curiosity, fairness, and the pleasure of making something by hand. A bicycle mechanic and enthusiastic cook, Alex believed that a patient explanation could make a difficult task feel possible. Alex is survived by a partner, Jordan, and a brother, Nico. The family will gather privately. Friends are invited to honor Alex’s memory through an everyday act of kindness.
Why it works: The tribute communicates values through interests and a concrete memory.
Fictional example
A short secular announcement
Priya Shah, 71, of Columbus, died on October 1, 2025. Priya loved languages, puzzles, and exploring unfamiliar places. She is survived by her sister, Anika, and many close friends. Her curiosity and generous friendship will be remembered in a private gathering.
Why it works: The closing conveys affection without an afterlife statement.
Questions about this template
What can I say instead of “rest in peace”?
You could write “Lovingly remembered,” “We will carry their memory with us,” or simply end with memorial details.
Can a nonreligious obituary mention a church venue?
Yes, if that is the confirmed location. Naming a venue does not require making a statement about the person’s beliefs.
Is “celebration of life” always nonreligious?
No. The phrase can describe different kinds of gatherings. State the actual arrangements rather than assuming a particular format.